Question: Do you think that your love ones can still communicate with you after they are dead?
Consider the following:
1 Thessalonians 4:15-17
"15For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. 16For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: 17Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord."
If when we die, we go to heaven, why would to rise again when the Lord comes? Death is liken unto a deep sleep in verse 15, of which the person would not do, say or know anything until the Lord comes in the clouds of glory. Ecclesiastes 9:5 - "For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten."